You have a hard time saying no to people, even when you may not want to do what they’re asking you to do. You feel responsible for other people’s feelings, believing it is your job to make them feel okay about you, the world, or themselves.

But here’s the thing, you are so busy catering to other people’s wants and needs, that you are no longer living for yourself -maybe you never have! There are times when you resolve to put yourself first, but when an issue arises, you falter and take care of others instead of yourself.